For members who want a little extra one-on-one connection, we offer an optional buddy system—affectionately known as your personal bullshit detector. Think accountability partner meets honest friend: someone who’ll cheer you on, lovingly call you out, and remind you what you already know deep down.

Participation is completely optional. If you opt in, we’ll pair you with another member whose interests and life stage align with yours. From there, you decide how it works—weekly check-ins, monthly chats, or the occasional text to stay grounded. And if you’d rather skip it altogether, that’s perfectly fine too.

No pressure. No rules. Just an open invitation for authentic connection, if and when you want it.